Posted by Dinah on August 11, 2008, at 18:20:42
In reply to Wedding Ring Fiasco, posted by Rigby on August 11, 2008, at 13:12:41
Her final statement does make it sound as if she still thought you were enmeshed in the relationship with her. If you have moved on, and are no longer concerned beyond the ordinary with a long time intimate acquaintance, then she hasn't quite caught up to your change of view.
Or maybe the truth runs somewhere between enmeshed and moved on?
Of course, it's hard to interpret words without the other nonverbal information. I've often said word for word what my therapist has said, and yet had it interpreted in a way that it would not have been by someone in the room.
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