Posted by Lemonaide on July 28, 2008, at 18:23:49
In reply to I feel so sick, I really need some support , pleas, posted by Lemonaide on July 28, 2008, at 16:02:38
I called today to see what we will be discussing tomorrow, about my old T or something else. Well he still hasn't called, either he forgot or it is avoidance on his part.
WEll I called T#1 to say that my T#2 was too busy to talk to him, and that I wanted to talk to him anyway.( he surprised me and answered the phone) He got sort of pissy, and now I remember another thing that I don't like about him. I told him I will probably just forgot it. He tried to tell me that he (current T) called and said he couldn't meet until his feet are better. Then he said we could do this over the phone, but my current T insisted on doing it in person. Well I told him I know why and it wasn't about me, but more about him and my current T . I was so angry, I should be able to talk to who I want without all this sh*t. I asked if I didn't even have a T, then what would he do?
Well I am pissed. It is one thing if my T has a medical condition and that is why this keeps getting delayed. But the truth is he forgot again. How long am I suppose to be hanging on. I have been very patient through the heart surgury, and then the infection thing. But this time I am pissed he hasn't called my old T yet. Then he says something about that he can't get a time that is agreeable to both of them. Lie, Lie, Lie(he hasn't tried yet) Then he said he didn't realize I come in tomorrow. Well that is what he said last week and when I got another reason, he simply forgot.
I can take working with him with his medical condition, but don't lie to me. He lied to me. I hate him for it, I don't trust him. He is giving me the run around, and I have been very patient, but no longer.
So I called and canceled tomorrow's sessions. I have just had enough of all of this.Then I called T #1 and left a message to just leave me alone, I don't want to meet with him, I am no longer seeing any therapist anymore, and if I talk to anyone it will be a lawyer for all the sh*t he did to me.
I have had it with the therapists. I know my current T already probably left the office before he got my message. I don't care, I am not going in tomorrow. He let me down, I don't being lied to. I just can't believe he did that and expected me to accept the run around once again. I have had all I can take right now.
Then I called my current T and canceled all my sessions for the month and told him I can work with his physical limitations, but I can't work with him lying to me. I told him I have had enough of working with a bunch of idiots.
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