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Re: I left my T for 2 months...then caved...so har

Posted by sassyfrancesca on July 23, 2008, at 7:19:12

In reply to I left my T for 2 months...then caved...so hard, posted by stellabystarlight on July 22, 2008, at 23:20:46

I relate so much, you cannot believe it. I know I should leave my t (of 5 years); I went to him for a problem like no one else has had (my church was wanting to kick me out for getting a divorce--long story; my t was recommended to me by a friend, because he is a pastor, also, and expert in spiritual abuse).

He has sexualized our relationship (no sex), but verbal innuedoes, and some touching. It is SUCH a long story. He is the only man in my life...after a 31-year abusive marriage (and divorce); I have been trying to find a male friend, but nothing so far (the dating sites....suck).

He has said: "If I were not married, I would probably go for it." "You are in my heart and in my head." Hundreds of other come-ons; my friends are furious with him.

He says he is "happily married." I think 1 of 2 things. Either he IS, and is exploiting (using) me, or he isn't, and struggling with his feelings towards me.

Either way isn't healthy for me.

Just venting!

Sassy


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