Posted by llurpsienoodle on July 19, 2008, at 7:38:49
In reply to Wanting to connect about desire and transference, posted by FindingMyDesire on July 19, 2008, at 2:28:59
hi there FMD,
wow- you've got a LOT going on in your therapy! I think you are very brave to continue to explore these feelings with your therapist despite the discomfort you feel.Maybe something to think about is-- why did the attachment become more sexualized as therapy progressed? Did something happen in your "real-life" relationship to precipitate this? Or perhaps an event from your past (distant/recent conscious/subconscious)
It sounds like you are doing really good work- maintaining appropriate boundaries, yet permitting a real attachment to form. Your T sounds like she is really THERE for you- what a great feeling.
okay, my cat is begging to be fed... gotta run
-Ll
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