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Re: I feel like a total loser Angela2

Posted by Happyflower on May 13, 2008, at 20:40:33

In reply to Re: I feel like a total loser, posted by Angela2 on May 13, 2008, at 20:00:15

Hi Angela,

I had a friend like this too, I was always her support when she was having problems, but when I needed help, she really wasn't there for me. This was a childhood friend that we shared many things together from the 4th grade. I still have nightmares of her not wanting to be my friend, but somebody else's. We made up after high school, but I feel into the same trap, I supported her through her marriage problems, etc. but when it was time to pick out my wedding dress, she didn't have the time, stuff like that, when my daughter was in the hospital, she was too busy to support me.

Eventually I cut things off when she can celled( again) our get together we had planned with our spouses , at the last minute.
Since then I have met people who were mutual friends and supporters, and it makes a huge difference. Some people just know how to use others, and not be a mutual friend. Good luck Angela.


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