Posted by Dinah on April 28, 2008, at 16:57:32
In reply to Re: AND,,,dinah dinah dinah...it upsets me for, posted by rskontos on April 28, 2008, at 14:52:45
I'm sorry it upsets you. :(
But in this context at least, I think I'm saying it in a good way, as something I'm glad about. There is a layer of protection in it you know. People don't really look very hard, sometimes their eyes skip right over. Far less conspicuous and more effective than wearing a hood and mask.
I'm not saying I choose it for that reason. It's more that it's an unintended side benefit.
And I should also add that the most important people don't see me that way. My husband still finds me attractive, because he still sees the slim reasonably attractive girl he courted.
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