Posted by B2chica on March 21, 2008, at 12:59:40
In reply to First post in this section......, posted by fleeting flutterby on March 21, 2008, at 9:59:33
Hi and welcome.
but i'm going to be quick and blunt.
1. you need to decide which T you are seeing.
if you want to stay with your old T then listen to his methods.
if you want to see new T then you NEED to put aside what the old T's beliefs were and listed to new T.
2.if YOU on the other hand have issues with taking meds. you need to discuss this with your new T and maybe you and her/him can figure out a game plan.
3.but in my opinion you're trying to take T advice from two T's...this WILL tear you apart emotionally, as you become emotionally connected to your T's and then you are forced to make a choice that you should not be having to make and also having to keep a secret you should not be keeping (more to past issues there also). this is NOT good for you and is not good for your healing.
4.it is ok to remain in contact with your old T but keep the contact as friends...not as T/patient relationship. or this will muddy your current T relationship and harm your healing.
and dear flutterby (LOOOOVE the name btw)
i wish you only the very best and i hope to see you around alot here.
i'm not here that much these days as i'm easily triggered and i'm trying to stay stable. but i try to pop in once and a while.