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Re: Just wanted to tell you... LadyBug

Posted by rskontos on March 16, 2008, at 11:43:26

In reply to Re: Just wanted to tell you..., posted by LadyBug on March 16, 2008, at 7:49:59

Ladybug, why in the world would T be mad. This is enormous emotional time for you. This is very hard thing to go through. I think you need to see this child and have all the time in the world to work through it. If this was mine situation, I have a daughter close to your daughters age, I think I would need to work through with the child in my life, not to isolate myself. That is my best guess since it is not happening to me. Babies you can love even if they are not related to you, so this one is so special to you. Yes go on Easter, take the basket. I think that each visit will bring some healing and some peace. Take pictures, video too. So that when it gets so hard to handle you can look at them, watch the video and know you will see him again. And when he is old enough you probably will be able to take him places, to the park, to swing, for walks etc. He will be around a longtime. Long enough for both of you to have a relationship with him. Go, change his diaper, give the basket. I think it will help and know in your heart, each leaving of him will get easier. And he is the luckiest of babies, two adoring families to love him to pieces. How wonderful is that. Don't deprive him of knowing you....you are special too.

rsk

 

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