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Re: p.s. crushedout

Posted by DAisym on March 4, 2008, at 20:14:54

In reply to p.s. DAisym, posted by crushedout on March 4, 2008, at 20:06:04

Totally happened. The difference between our situations was that he was mad at my dad and essentially said, "we could report him." Scared me half to death - I haven't ever even confronted him! And then I felt like I couldn't do what he wanted me to do, so I quit.

I do what you do - I tell myself they aren't worth it. But hurting means caring and you know you hurt...and you know you care. This is a good thing. It is a great thing actually.

So go back, for yourself. If she doesn't own it, or hear how she made you feel, even if she thinks she was justified, maybe you do need a break. I don't know if she can see it. But I do think it is worth trying to sort it out - three years is a long time.

And what if it ends? You grieve. And you go on. You don't stop trusting everyone. You've been through worse, I know you have. It sucks and it will hurt. But you are strong inside. And we'll help as much as we can.

I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you. It is going to be a long week for you. Be kind to yourself.

 

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