Posted by JoniS on January 11, 2008, at 8:59:25
In reply to My life sucks + I'm a loser **Trigger**, posted by TherapyGirl on January 11, 2008, at 6:49:09
TG
You are not a loser. It stinks - the pain you've endured, but you are not what you said. You are strong, and thoughtful and intelligent - all obvious from your posts here.
Being "picked" has it's disadvantages too. This is rotten about me, but I'll tell you that I was "picked" by my husband. The only time in my young adult life I was picked so I thought I better grab it while it's here. I was 17 then. Married at 18. For years I seriously doubted that I did the right thing. Still do doubt - at 46. I should love this man and forgive his infidelity, but I keep on tormenting myself, feeling stuck, down on myself cause I cant seem to move forward.
Maybe it's easy for me to say, but I think it is very very good to get to know yourself, take care of yourself, develop a helthy self esteem, know what qualities you want in a mate, and don't give up on your dreams.
I wish you well. I know it's difficult for you. But I respect you.
Joni
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