Posted by happyflower on October 6, 2007, at 16:58:51
In reply to i am in hell, posted by Dory on October 6, 2007, at 16:30:12
Dory,
You are not a freak!!! Please try to hold on to those good bonding T memories you have had this week. He is still their, in your heart, just stop take a deep breath and you will feel him. He is coming back, and you will be okay. You can get through this.Please do something healthy to distract yourself, shopping, create something in art, watch a good funny movie, one that secretly love but wouldn't tell anyone. I know probably have some school work to do, right? ick, I know, but try doing just 15 minutes of it and see if you feel better. When I feel like this, it helps me to go into "survivor mode". I keep telling myself I can do this, Iwill survive, I will feel better. Sounds corny and weird but it helps me.
Or make your favorite dessert or bake a chicken or something! I like to cook and making homemade anything feels like you are taking care of yourself and it tastes good too. Think mashed potatoes! (my fav) or jello, all the flavors!
OR listen to some of your favorite music, take a nice relaxing bath and use some of your favorite lotion to soothe your body after you come out. Put on your favorite PJ's and read a good book or watch your favorite movie you haven't seen in a while. I like Sound of Music, lol , now don't laught at me, well if laughing makes you feel better than laught your *ss off at me! That is okay! I can take it.
Don't know if any of this helps, if it doesn't just ignore it okay, maybe someone has some better ideas.
PS I still haven't seen a picture of your new color! ;-)
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