Posted by Maria01 on July 12, 2007, at 10:14:42
In reply to Tormented my Pdoc might terminate me (long **csa), posted by antigua3 on July 12, 2007, at 9:52:44
I'm not sure this would work for you, but I would take the bull by the horns and ask him directly if he intends to terminate you. Let him know you noticed a shift in his demeanor, and that you are concerned, based on past experience. It may or may not have nothing to do with you. Ask your T how to best handle this guy as well. From what I've seen here, a lot of pdocs lack empathy...
I would have saved myself a lot of grief and stress if I had come out and asked my ex-T if she planned on terminating me...I let myself wait instead, and it was torture. Please don't make the same mistake; the stress isn't worth it. Call the guy and let him know you'd like to talk with him ASAP. If he doesn't respond well, it's more of a reflection on him than on you.