Posted by frida on June 27, 2007, at 21:59:13
In reply to I cancelled T, posted by TherapyGirl on June 27, 2007, at 20:18:51
I am really, really sorry.
I think you and her need to have an honest, heart-to-heart talk about what's happening...I am so sorry you are feeling so disconnected and she seems to be letting you down.
especially at this time that you should have her support.. and feel cared for and safe.
Maybe you could write to her? I hope she is able to reach you again and make you feel heard and connected..
Sending you lots of support...
> T never called me back. I called her a little after 1 p.m. -- 8 hours ago.
> I just called and left her a voice mail and cancelled tomorrow night. I told her I didn't know if I'd be back or not but that I know I can't come tomorrow night.
> I told her it wasn't just that she was being unhelpful -- that this was worse because it was so hurtful to me. I told her ever since she missed the week in April after the funeral, she has acted like she didn't know me. I suggested that perhaps she is depressed or mired in grief and that it was none of my business, but I couldn't keep trying to reconnect with these kinds of results.
> I'm just done.