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Re: got an appt..

Posted by Honore on June 21, 2007, at 16:19:45

In reply to Re: got an appt.. jammerlich, posted by wishingstar on June 21, 2007, at 15:08:55

I'm glad you took the appointment, WS. Sorry it's been a hard week and day. Even though Ginny has become disappointing, you did have a promising relationship until she wasn't able to see you as often. That's understandable and doesn't really help, but it does show that, under the right circumstances, things can go much better.

You'll be able to see someone twice a week; it just may take time. I know when you're feeling awful, the future doesn't matter, and it's this minute or this hour or day that needs to be better. I wish there were something I or someone could do-- right now- to change things. I'm glad at least your boyfriend's presence is comforting-- and it's great that he wants to come.

I do think Ginny cares--- and maybe doesn't know how to help right now-- but I know she wishes she could. Sometimes people get into a pattern that isn't productive-- and neither one of them knows why. But maybe if they can figure out how to get out of it -- it can really change things. So often the difference between being unhappy and more hopeful isn't as great as it seems-- and maybe either the new T, or Ginny herself, will find better ways, that will open things up.

Thinking, good thoughts for you, today.

(((WS)))

Honore


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