Posted by muffled on April 16, 2007, at 22:53:51
In reply to Re: Therapy for short-term anxiety » Iwillsurvive, posted by Daisym on April 16, 2007, at 20:51:39
> *You are SO lucky, and so am I. Thats a thing I have a HUGE problem with, this stuff where people get SO attached and get hurt, its just bad.
> ***Can I ask why you have a huge problem with this? Just curious about your wording...
**Sorry Daisy, I can see how you might get this confused. I had to read it 3x to remember wtf I was saying?!
I think what I was trying to get at is that not all therapists seem to handle transferrance well.
In some therapy its part of the therapy, and is considered useful. But in other therapy methods it doesn't seem to be adequateltly addressed. And it seems to be SO painful. Because the feelings involved are very very real, and yet T is a very narrow relationship in most cases.
I have struggled with this, seeing the others struggle so hard.
I HATE to see the hurt.
Its SO confusing.
I struggle with real life relationships let alone T ones...
There's no clear answers...
And so I am fortunate that I am not there. That additional pain..
And yet, as I write this I think, hmmm, I don't let ANYbody close...... mebbe thats a bad thing???? Maybe I not lucky, mebbe I just doing same old, same old???....hmmmm. AH SH*T! Therapy sucks.
You got me thinking Daisy.