Posted by Happyflower on April 10, 2007, at 12:16:58
In reply to Re: How come my T face seems so bright? » Happyflower, posted by pegasus on April 10, 2007, at 10:50:11
Thank you Peg for your postive post, it made me feel so good. Sometimes I feel I shouldn't post stuff like this, but you made it feel okay.
I believe T's have all their own issues when it comes to termination. I think I have read where how they don't feel "needed" anymore, now we know they don't want us to depend on them forever, but for them sometimes it is hard for them to feel less "magical" to the client. I guess sometimes even though they are very happy for us, it does feel like rejection for them too.
I have even read how they sometimes feel jelous when a client, who have given them so much attention, suddenly finds a "new love" in their life, and their "specialness" is less to the client. Most T's can handle any of this stuff, but sometimes their own ego's and emotions make it tough for them to let go.
I remember telling my T maybe a year ago, that is sucks that I can't have a social relationship with him. He said it sucks for him too, because I would be someone who he thinks he would enjoy to have a social relationship and that he doesn't feel that way with all his clients.
I think they don't include much training in dealing with T's feelings, when it comes to termination, so some handle it very poorly (like scentedgarden's T).
I think my T is happy to see me sometimes, because you can tell a real smile from a fake or forced one.
I have tried like hell to not care about him, especially when I first came to this site and heard the sad stories, but I couldn't help it, I care about him a great deal. There is nobody quite like him. :-)
But I want to thank you again, for not getting sick of my stories, and even if you do, you still post to me, so that is so cool. In fact you made my day today. :-)
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