Posted by Jeff Smith on March 26, 2007, at 14:34:11
In reply to Jeff Smith, posted by one woman cine on March 22, 2007, at 7:57:14
> Jeff, if you are going post private babblemails - (and only excerpts!) - I wish you had also posted yours to which I was only responding to. I would like you consider how you might feel if I were to do that.<
The reason I posted only those particular excerpts from your babble mails to me was just because they were the specific quotes which illustrated that particular lesson I was discussing.
I felt that posting any excerpts from my babble mails to you was not necessary for any reason at that time: If you feel it was unfair (or insert your feeling here) for me to just post those excerpts and none of my own and youd like for anyone to see the our conversations in their entirety then I would be glad to send them to whoever would be interested.
I dont know if it would be considered uncivil to send them by babble mail, but perhaps it would not be uncivil for someone to babblemail me their email address in order to send them there if they were interested in doing so. I dont know though.
You said in your above post: "I wish you had also posted YOURS TO WHICH I WAS ONLY RESPONDING TO." : )
I understand that you may wish I had also posted my bmails but the above (bold lettered) statement is not actually factual: See, you were not "only responding to" my babblemail. The actual fact is that you initiated the very first of your two babblemails to me and I was the one who was "only responding to" yours. : )
Allow me to prove it just so theres no confusion.
In this earlier post here http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20070309/msgs/742525.html
I had asked you "Why did you not reply to my last post to you or answer any of the questions in it, and instead come up with this question apparently in response to that quote from me to gazo? Are you for some reason angry or insulted or offended?".
I had asked you that since you had been publicly posting messages to me, but yet when I would then publicly reply to what you had said to/regarding me and had asked me you did not do the same in return (just meaning that you didnt publicly reply to any of the replies Id made to your questions/statements and you didnt answer any of the questions I had asked you) which was confusing to me.
Anyway so after I asked you those last questions publicly on 3/20 (that I just quoted above) you then replied to me by babblemail on 3/21 with what it was you had to say. (#1)
I then replied to you (by Bmail).... (#2)
You then replied back to me (by Bmail).... (#3)
I then replied to you again (by bmail) which was the last of our babblemail "conversations". (#4)
I just figured Id clear that up just simply for the sake of being accurate and factual since Im a "bit" obsessive about organization.
Now just to answer your request that "I would like you consider how you might feel if I were to do that."
Im going to assume that you mean how would I feel if you had posted only excerpts of the private babblemails I sent to you in response to your initial and then follow up bmail to me, and yet you did not post your own babblemails you had sent to me(?).
Well I suppose it would depend on exactly what point you were attempting to make from it in order for me to determine how Id feel about you, but ultimately Id have no problem with only my excerpts being posted and you omitting yours.
I said nothing in my babblemails to you that I would ever object to having publicly posted here so if you had posted only certain excerpts from my bmails then I wouldve simply posted the entire sentence or paragraph from that excerpt (had it not been considered uncivil to do so) if I felt that particular excerpt was misleading and/or being used out of context.
Id really feel fine with it: In that situation Id say please feel free to post whatever and however youd want and Id reply accordingly.
Again, I just wanted to clear that up and to answer your request.
I also hope nothing in this post is considered uncivil for any reason: If it is and Im blocked/banned then, unfortunately for me, I might have to accept the fact that I may not be able to conform to psycho babbles rules.
And if Im able to then Id like to reply to some other posts here later. Too tired now though. : )