Posted by frida on March 15, 2007, at 21:56:19
In reply to ginny, posted by wishingstar on March 15, 2007, at 16:34:17
dear wishingstar...
I am so sorry..it seems Ginny is giving up too easily..
i read therapygirl's post...in my case it took me 6 years to be able to talk...and even now I can't talk freely..but my T stuck with me and helped me through this years and gave me hope to live.
she did feel frustrated lots of times and sometimes told me that she couldn't help me if I don't talk, but she never gave up on me. She said things out of frustration but waited, and I changed slowly. I did what I could.I am so sorry about Ginny, I don't really understand why she's changed and seems to be giving up like this, when she should realize that you are trying, and that you are hurting...When I couldn't talk, sometimes my T told me, well maybe you just need to be silent right now and it's ok..and she tried to understand the reasons behind my silence and how painful it is.
I am really sorry. I don't know, I had faith in Ginny for you.
Wish i could help...
I go to see my T and it's around 2 hours away from where I live. I go weekly. Maybe you can consider seeing Laurie? Reaching out to her right now?
You deserve help and support through this.
Frida
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