Posted by Happyflower on December 25, 2006, at 10:38:24
In reply to Re: So when are you are dumping me? » Happyflower, posted by Dinah on December 23, 2006, at 22:40:15
Hi Dinah,
Yes my last session before this one was very good. But this time it was not as connecting I guess.
The context where he asked the question went something like this . He says, so what is 2007 going to be like for you? I said I don't know. He said because of your DH's job situation, it leaves it unpredictible. Then we talked about my marriage issues a little again.
Then he goes, so when are you planning on dumping me. I just got kinda quiet and looked away.
Then he said well I thought this year we were going to cut down to 10 sessions over the year. I said , Ya, YOU did say that. Then he repeated what I said, (he got the point that it was what HE said, not me). He then said well you said you wanted to quit at the end of the year, remember?
He said do you want to
to see me every week or do you want to space 10 sessions out over the year. I said, well, isn't there a happy medium here? He asked what I wanted. I said I still wanted to continue with every other week for awhile. Then we went to schedule oour next appointment, and because of the holidays, I see him in 2 1/2 weeks.Why does he say I am dumping him , when I am not the one that wants to leave? I feel like he is dumping me because he is pushing me. Why do all good things end for me? It makes me so sad.
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