Posted by muffled on December 4, 2006, at 9:51:25
In reply to Re: How long????, posted by Karolina on December 4, 2006, at 0:15:16
> It's kind of hard to quote out of context but basically we talk a lot about my feelings of attraction towards him (which he says he feels flattered by) and he compliments me a lot on my appearance. But the other day he had said he thought I was attractive, pretty, that if he were my same age, that he would be attracted to me. But that since he's my T he is in a dilemma; that he 'doesn't want to deny me of these things' but that he's also my doctor, so much older, married, etc. I don't know why I am up late thinking about it but does that sound like an odd thing for him to say?**Karolina,
I agree w/you, its hard to take it out of context.
But I have said something similiar to a young man of my aquaintance. I ABSOLUTELY meant nothing but kindness to him, there was NO other intent whatsoever. It was motherly on my part. Good gravy I hope he didn't take it wrong! Aaack!
But anyways, to me it sounds like your t cares very much for you, and perhaps what he means by 'he don't want to deny you these things', is that he is afraid that your connection with him may preclude you having connection with other men that you could connect with. I suspect this may be the case. This SO parallels the same things I myself have said.
Anyhow, thats MY opinion.
Take care,
Muffled
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