Posted by muffled on November 9, 2006, at 11:54:48
In reply to Re: Please, can someone answer this.... » muffled, posted by Lindenblüte on November 9, 2006, at 11:39:08
> What do you mean by ego-states? I don't know what that is.
**Thats the different people inside. Like lotsa babblers talk bout their kid parts. Those are ego states. Parts of oneself, that got interrupted, split off, and never grew up. Often there are ones that hold stuff, so the rest of oneself don't have to deal with it. Its a form of dissociation. And of course, the degree of splitting, exists on a continuum. So there can be all degrees of splitting. From slightly, to full blown DID.
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> I'm sorry you're hurting right now. confused because you want something, but you're not sure if that's the "right thing" to want. Not sure if you want comfort, or you just want to feel free to let something out.**I think I want/need to allow this kid to be comforted so she will LEAVE ME ALONE. And not ongoingly cause trouble.
My T has done good work. I don't do the crazy risky stuff I used to do. But I still hurt.
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> Are you worried that if you ask for something and get it, that you won't be satisfied and that will be even worse feeling than if you had never asked in the first place?***Hmmm. Interesting question. I dunno. I'm not much for asking. I don't expect anything. I don't think. But at this point, who the hell knows. I sure don't.
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> I have that problem a lot. I think I WANT something, but after I get it, I just feel even worse, because it didn't fill the hole, and now there is even a bigger gap between comfort and suffering.**(((((LI))))))
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> Well, whatever happens I think you'll be okay- just talk through the conflict and you might be surprised at what your T can help you learn.***Yeah. I got a real good T. Cept she patted me on the shoulder. Which got some part of me mad. And now I goto figger THAT out.
But I sent her a fax that told her not to touch me. But mebbe its OK. And I hope I didn't make her feel bad. Cuz for some bizzare reason I think she likes me. Even though I nuts.
Sh*t.
Why do I have to make evry thing so complicated?
Muffled
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