Posted by madeline on October 30, 2006, at 6:10:02
In reply to Trying so hard not to drown. :-(, posted by SatinDoll on October 29, 2006, at 21:37:27
Wow! I'm afraid I really can't say what I really think about what your DH said and did for fear of being blocked permanently from babble. What a jerky thing for him to do (how's THAT for euphenism?).
I know that you can keep your head through all this satin, even though every one around you appears to be losing theirs.
You are one strong cookie.
I think that you are right that your DH is just acting out. He probably feels guilty for chosing not see his mom for two years (and YES that was his CHOICE). Rather than accepting responsibilty for his actions, he's blaming you.
My dad is the master of that and it can hurt so bad, but try and realize it says more about him than you.
Try to stay away from his as best you can while this blows over.
Love ya baby!
maddie
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