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Re: In Session correction

Posted by SatinDoll on October 24, 2006, at 9:02:52

In reply to Re: In Session correction Daisym, posted by annierose on October 24, 2006, at 6:52:52

(((((Daisy)))))) I wish I didn't understand the pain you are going through, but I do. You are so brave to openly talk about it, and your T talks to you about it, that is amazing to me.
Plus he is so honest with you about how he feels. I am sure he feels like scooping you up, and comforting you. Sometimes the boundries really suck for everyone I think. I understand why they are there, but it still hurts.

For me, it would help me really get in touch with my feelings if I felt safe enough to cry in front of my T. BUt since his boundries of touch is the same as your T, I hold back. I just can't help it. Him not touching me when I am upset makes me not trust him completely and the feelings of if he didn't comfort me is enough to keep my distance from going there with him. Sometimes T's should make exceptions I think.

Having your heart professionally broken is how I feel too. It is so damn bittersweet that they help you go on with you life in a better state than when you started, but then to not have them in your life, does set you back I know at least for me.

I have maybe 5 sessions left and I am not looking forward to it. I think I will die of of missing him so much. I let him become important to me, and now it will break my heart.

I am glad you are able to talk about it Daisy, I am "speachless" when it comes to talking about this with him.

Do you have anyone in your life that can hold you Daisy? I wish I did. How are you and the kids dealing with the separation? My heart is breaking for you Daisy. I don't have any advice at all, but all I can do is let you know , that I am also feeling this too.


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