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Re: therapy, yoga and t's comments .... » muffled

Posted by Lindenblüte on September 29, 2006, at 18:47:36

In reply to Re: therapy, yoga and t's comments ...., posted by muffled on September 29, 2006, at 17:54:04

Annierose,
that sounds really intense. I'm glad you had a safe place (yoga) to let it out, and feel good about showing your hurt feelings. I'm also glad that you have a T that you can talk to about these things. It's really hard when you want to know that they are there, but that they are not your parent, or your lover, or your close friend. They are somehow ambiguous, distant, so so close that you cannot imagine what you must have done wrong in this life (or another one) to be simultaneously helped and hurt by such a relationship.

Sometimes my husband can't even hold me or do anything to take the pain away. At some level, the hurt is so deep, that mere touch is just superficial and trite. It's the gesture that goes deeper. I guess T's think that the gesture might as well come through their words and their reliability to return messages and such. BUT! they are simply not available as one would need a true partner to be.

So frustrating, huh?

-Li


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