Posted by Dinah on September 14, 2006, at 18:15:23
In reply to Change In Appointments?, posted by LadyBug on September 14, 2006, at 0:33:13
I've at best only ever had a semi-official time. We arrange it week by week. He never tells me why he wants to do it at another time, but as you saw, I was pretty miffed when he just gave the spot to someone else.
Maybe it's something that can't be done at another time?
I understand about wanting to pull away. My therapist asked me today why I didn't call him when I started having trouble Tuesday. I told him that I didn't want to get too dependent on him again because he didn't mind leaving me, and if he didn't mind then he would eventually.
He laughed and said that I have a funny way of thinking.
It seemed reasonable to me. :(
But...
You've seen her nine years and she's important to you. I think more than anything what eleven years has earned me in my relationship with my therapist is the right to be honest, and to hear honesty, in what we feel about each other. And vice versa. Which means going to the session to fuss. :)
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