Posted by happyflower on September 11, 2006, at 21:08:49
In reply to Re: Maddie; sorry this is really kind of long » madeline, posted by susan47 on September 11, 2006, at 18:57:45
Thanks Susan
I think you are thinking of allisonross, she isn't here anymore and I haven't emailed her in a long time. But you are right things did get much worse for her.I think I would find it easier if he was just some guy who couldn't or didn't want to return my feelings and I could let go because he wasn't important. But like I have said before, I feel something special for him internally that only a few people in my life I have felt this for. (not even my kids or my dh).
Plus I truely believe he has feelings for me, I still think this, the signs are there. But he is very ethical and he would not risk his job on it either. He has a huge reputation. But I think even very ethical T's still will find sometimes in their careers where they meet someone who could be something more if they met elsewhere. We are all human, even T's. Even if I believe he feels this way about me, I also know him enough that he will do what is best for me even if there is mutally attraction, he won't act on it.
Yes he has told me that I am someone who he would like to be social with , but he won't do it. He said it sucks for him too. So I know he really likes me, but I am really going to miss him when therapy is over. One good thing is I think he renewed his gym membership! ;-)
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