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Been away sick....need some advice

Posted by fairywings on August 3, 2006, at 14:37:37

Hi everyone,

It's been quite a long time since I've posted. I hope everyone is doing well. My last post I said I was in a lot of pain, well I fractured my spine!

Can anyone help me see through my anger about this.....I cancelled all of July appts. (with notice). when I cancelled, I left 2 messages for him with the receptionists that I fractured my spine. When I went back this week he seemed cool. He said you cancelled a bunch of appts., what was that all about? I said I fractured my spine, didn't you get my messages? He said no, I just thought you were mad at me about something, so you cancelled. I said I left 2 messages for you and was told you'd get them.

I was mad about that, mad that he didn't bother to find out why I'd cancelled, and mad because he assumed I cancelled because I was mad at him about something (and throwing a temper tantrum or something). I also found out he doesn't p/u his own voice mail - which I figured, and he doesn't ever phone patients.

I felt like everything has been a sham. I've seen him for a year, and it seemed like all he cared about was his bottom line, like he doesn't really have genuine concern for me. We spent 20 min. of the appt. going back and forth about it - which was a huge waste of my time. I was so hurt and upset I didn't sleep, and I've been upset since Tuesday. There were other things, but this is the part I need help with. I just can't get beyond the anger and hurt. I know if I go back my attitude will suck, and I only have 4 more appts. where my insurance will help, then I'd have to pay the full fee.

I've written him a letter, but wondered if anyone had any sage advice before I send it.
Missed you all, I have a lot of catching up to do.
fw

btw, I still can't sit very long, so I'm not on the computer much, but I do appreciate any advice you might have.


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