Posted by wishingstar on July 12, 2006, at 16:27:47
In reply to Re: am I expecting too much?, posted by ElaineM on July 11, 2006, at 21:02:01
She actually doesnt ever really talk about what is and isnt okay in terms of calls, even when I bring it up. A year or so ago she actually gave me her cell number in case I needed her urgently, but now I cant get her to respond to anything at all...
A BRIEF :) history...
2 weeks ago I called her and said I was very upset and please call me, and she didnt call back until 2 days later. But the biggest one... a few months back, I was completely falling apart and called her. It was the first time I'd ever asked for her help, and asking for help is a huge issue for me. She said she'd call back at a certain time of the day, and never called. It hurt a lot. I let her know how angry I was, but she never apologized or anything. That was all I really wanted from her.
It's possible she didnt get my message then I guess.. but by 3:00 today (48 hours later) she still hadnt called, so I'm sure she'd gotten it by then. She would have changed her voicemail if she was out of the office. I guess she was busy? My current T here (seeing another while I'm out of town) thinks that shes not responding because I'm being manipulative and we;re playing a game here.. but I dont know. (see my post below on that...)
I just dont know. All possibilities, but I just cant help but feeling like she just doesnt care.