Posted by wishingstar on July 10, 2006, at 18:35:12
In reply to being manipulative versus honest, posted by wishingstar on July 9, 2006, at 20:05:59
I left a message for my regular T at home this evening asking her if the reason we battle so much over things I want her to do (to make me feel more heard) versus doing things "her way" is because she feels like I'm being manipulative, or if it's something else. Hopefully she'll call back tomorrow (although her track record for that isnt good). I'm not even sure I'd feel worse if she said yes.. at least I'd understand then. We'll see.