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Re: You were right **trigger ?** ElaineM

Posted by Poet on June 23, 2006, at 17:51:49

In reply to You were right **trigger ?**, posted by ElaineM on June 23, 2006, at 16:53:09

Oh my God, Elaine,

Sorry, I usually begin with hi, but what your T said and did has my personal *danger* radar going in full force.

I think that your T is playing a very dangerous game with you. Kneeling on the floor in front of you and holding both your hands? Asking you to go away for a weekend? I think you're absolutely right that kneeling on the floor usually is in regard to a proposal. To me it's like he's begging you to not leave him. Not for professional reasons: that he can help you, it's more that he wants to prove to himself that he can control you.

I would, as Racer said, run, and not look back. I understand your feelings for him, but I also see how he could be using those feelings to gain power and control. He knows your vulnerable spot and how to play it. I hate people who play games, especially those who think they can write their own rules. I am so sorry this has happened to you.

I think it's good that you have an appointment with another T and that your session didn't trigger you to SI. Two really good things that you have going for you.

Safe cyber hugs ((((((Elaine)))))) and the hardest cyber slap I've ever sent to your current T.

Poet

 

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