Posted by fairywings on June 5, 2006, at 14:02:03
In reply to sex after.......? maybe a trigger?, posted by starloree on June 3, 2006, at 13:28:27
Hi Storalee,
I know Tamar is right about the rape fantasy....in my mind I go through what happened to me and have it go differently, and get away so nothing happens, but it keeps it in my mind...which I guess isn't good. I don't know if you'd call what I do "fantasy" or not...I guess it is, but I never thought of it that way because it's wanting to undo it.
For some of us, it's not hard to develop feelings for our T's - they're someone who cares, listens, pays us attention, and always has our best interest at heart. Whether it's a parental thing or feels more loving. It's good that you can talk to him about it.
fw
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