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Dinah

Posted by Dinah on May 30, 2006, at 22:09:10

You know in your heart of hearts that it's time.

You have grown to know that your therapist is not the therapist/mommy you've created for yourself. Just as you grew to know your mother was not the mother you would want your own child to have. It's time to let go of that fantasy and accept what is. It's time to stop creating what you wish to have, and accepting it as reality.

It's time to realize that your priorities have shifted, and that you want to be the mother your son deserves and the wife your husband deserves. And that it's time to let go of the past. Yes, you haven't been the wundkerkind at your job that you used to be. But your job has long since ceased to be what it once was to you. As someone very wise told you today... Oh drat, I can't say it as well.


It's time to let go of the past, and move to the future. With the two things in your life that have proved themselves to be everything you had hoped they would be - your husband and your son.

I know it hurts, and I know there is soooo much safety in what was. But it *will* be ok. I'll be there for you. And I'll support you in any way I can. And there will be others to help you when you falter.

You know it's time. You've been knowing it's time for a while now.

Let go of this step, just long enough to reach for the next rung of the ladder. It will be there for you. And what you lose will be repaid many times by what's waiting for you.

 

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