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Re: session yesterday**trigger** » B2chica

Posted by ghost on April 6, 2006, at 17:33:00

In reply to session yesterday**trigger**, posted by B2chica on April 6, 2006, at 9:12:21

you didn't want it. you just weren't in control of the situation and even though you weren't tied up with your eyes taped open in front of the television, you didn't want it, and didnt want to be there.

i can see how some questions would trigger emotions and clamming up, too... plus it's that whole "it's not what you say, it's how you say it" thing. the question itself might be legit, but in context, it could be all wrong.

i need people to ask me questions too, but it's really important *how* they ask them (and when).

i dont blame you for clamming up. or lying. although i have to say that i don't think it's doing either of you any good. not saying you have to open up to her, but i am saying maybe you should rethink who you waste your time with? she sounds like she's trying, but it also sounds like it's not entirely the right approach for what you need.

just my unwarranted two cents :)

*love*
ghost


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