Posted by frida on February 18, 2006, at 0:55:48
In reply to Is it me or my imagination that everytime I talk, posted by happyflower on February 17, 2006, at 23:32:47
hi, I wanted to send you my support, and tell you that I understand about not wanting to lose that precious connection.
i actually feel that way about my T, she's female, older than me...I see her as a 'mother figure'..but I feel we share such a deep connection, soul connection...I won't find that with someone else..
I want to stay connected, I wouldn't stand to lose that connection..
I still have a long way to go in T...but my idea is to see her every now and then (in the future) and stay connected...see her, talk to her. I don't want to lose that connection. she's been so important to me and given me things that have shaped who i am.
I don't know if your T would agree to a social relationship...have you considered seeing him (after T is over) once a month, or so, but still as your T? meeting in his office, to update him on how you've been, and just share?
Sending you support,