Posted by Tamar on February 16, 2006, at 19:50:04
In reply to Re: Normal service will be resumed as soon as possible » Tamar, posted by annierose on February 16, 2006, at 19:38:46
> I am so happy that you can continue this theraputic journey ... please post when you are able about how it felt. I am pleased to read that your mother-in-law continues to improve. Hopefully seeing your T will lift your spirits too.
Thanks Annierose. Yeah, I think just being in the same room as him will be somewhat comforting.
> You'll probably be amazed at how quickly you reconnect. After a long absence, it was only a matter of a few sessions before all those loving feelings can flooding back.
That's heartening to hear. I've been expecting it to take some time. But if it's quick I think that'll be easier (at least until the whole I-want-to-be-special thing starts all over again...)
It's funny... in recent weeks I haven't been feeling the same kind of transferential stuff towards him. I've been thinking of him more as a kind of colleague; someone I work on stuff with. The transference has all been coming out in my marriage instead. So it'll be interesting to see what happens when I reconnect with my therapist!