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Re: sick mothers **Trigger** » B2chica

Posted by ghost on January 5, 2006, at 21:26:04

In reply to sick mothers **Trigger**, posted by B2chica on January 5, 2006, at 11:52:59

b2c,

i love you. you're not sick or dirty or any of that.

forgive me for comparing you to an animal, but reading your post made me think of a kitten. an abused kitten. babies/baby animals just want to be loved. it's in their nature, it's all they really want. love (which is usually provided in the form of nourishment and shelter and other forms of caring and taking care of something or someone). however, what they experience early on is all they know. they don't know what the "right" kind of love is or recognise the "wrong" kind of love when they experience it. all they know is they need and want love, and what their mothers give them must be love, because a mother wouldn't give anything else, right?

you like(d) it not because you're sick or perverted, but because that's how your mother showed you love, and love is what you needed. your mother is also a sick b@st@rd who deserves to have the sh@t kicked out of her, but YOU are the victim here. YOU did not know this is wrong. YOU just wanted to be loved. you took what you could get because you did not know what you were getting was wrong. you are NOT AT FAULT HERE.

sorry for being so strongly worded. and for giving my two cents. but i really believe this is the case.

take care of yourself. remember that i (and we) love you here.

love,
ghost


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