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Re: Sigh » orchid

Posted by Voce on December 24, 2005, at 2:17:13

In reply to Re: Sigh » Voce, posted by orchid on December 22, 2005, at 2:32:54

Ah, Orchid, you are so reasonable! :-/

<Accepting that it will never be fully closed, sometimes strangely brings closure. Like how we come to accept it when a person dies suddenly. Try to leave it to God and move on.>

Oh that is the right thing to do, I know. I honestly do not always believe that God cares much. But what else is there to be done...

<Another thing that would help is to try to substitute other men for him. Try to talk to different men, and you might come to understand that everyone is great in their own way, and that might help you move past this.>

I have never met another man like him. Chances are I never will. He is gone, but I still do look for him in other people. I don't know if that helps me or not.

<But I do agree, that the best thing to happen would be for your T to pick up enough strength and talk to you openly and perhaps admit his mistakes, or at least walk you through over his thoughts, so that you will gain closure. But it takes a strong person with lot of openness and integrity and good will to be able to do that.>

If I were to meet him again, I fear it would only stir up the pain more. At any rate, I don't think he wants to meet with me. That's one sleeping giant I'll let be, at least right now.

Voce


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