Posted by antigua on December 14, 2005, at 10:00:29
In reply to mother daughter (long)**Trigger**, posted by B2chica on December 14, 2005, at 9:29:51
You're doing great. I know it doesn't feel like it, but the memories come pouring out sometimes and can just overwhelm you. You have been through so much and you are still fighting to wellness. You have come so far already.
IMO, your mother's actions do seem a bit extreme. I have a 13-yr old daughter w/acne and I would never dream of saying anything like that to her. Also, I haven't seen her naked in a few years. She deserves her privacy and if she needs me, she knows where to find me. I also remember the training bra thing, and we just went out to get one, no questions asked. You deserved respect and privacy too and I'm sorry you didn't get it.
Tell your T; IMO, it always helps, especially because they often can make connections we never see.
I'm sorry these things happened to you,
antigua
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