Posted by Dinah on November 22, 2005, at 19:32:58
In reply to Re: Dang that fighting to relationship! » Dinah, posted by orchid on November 22, 2005, at 6:46:17
I think he wants to do it. But I think he's just so overwhelmed right now, and so naturally disorganized, that it is difficult for him to take concrete steps to fix the situation.
He *is* going to call me tomorrow and see if a short midweek call can help keep the connection going.
But on the other hand, he admitted that there's a problem with the time he schedules me, as far as his ability to concentrate. Yet he turned around and scheduled the next session at the same time next week, despite my reminder to him of what he'd said.
I *think* that maybe part of his feeling overwhelmed is feeling a bit resentful that I am asking more from him instead of being grateful for what he is doing. Which he likely feels is stretching him thin as it is.
Or maybe I'm projecting a bit. I feel that way myself a lot these days.
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