Posted by orchid on October 10, 2005, at 18:37:28
In reply to Re: Thanks all.., posted by rabidreader on October 10, 2005, at 18:26:20
I agree. It isn't worth the problems.
I ended up feeling so very embarrassed and ashamed of my dependancy on my T, and feeling guilty in my marriage and not being able to be loyal to my husband and not knowing how to help it either. The projection was so very intense, and I honestly didn't know what to make out of it or how to get myself out of it.
It did help me a lot in the beginning to understand things and grow, but soon after it became so very painful.
And I understand it was just not in my case, many of the posters here who suffer the most with dependancy are those who go to male Ts. Inevitably I see so much of suffering when people go to male Ts irrespective of how good or bad the T is. Anyway, as always people might disagree, but it is my opinion.
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