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Re: hm... Tamar

Posted by Shortelise on September 26, 2005, at 22:09:17

In reply to Re: hm... Shortelise, posted by Tamar on September 26, 2005, at 14:41:22

Thanks Tamar! You ask great questions! I'll answer them, too, to keep this exploration going.

It's not only with him that I feel unattractive, but with all men. I no longer use my sexuality as I once did. I never flirt with my T, would be embarrassed if I did so on an unconscious level. I rarely flirt with anyone. I am afaid of being pathetic.

Jewellry as love. There's a concept. Maybe I do have love and sex all confused, though not as far as my relationship with my husband goes. Do I feel that I can't be loved by a man without an element of sexuality to things? Mebbe. Di I feel that my T can't care about me because there is no overt sexuality to our relationship. Hm. I don't know.

We have only very rarely talked about sexual things. I do feel inhibited, but I haven't talked about it mostly because it's a can of worms I would just as soon leave unopened. Things are just fine, I am not unhappy. I just don't want to go there.


Yes, I will tell this dream to my T, if I have time. I see him once every three weeks, my entire family is descending on me in October, I have heaps of work - very high stress as it's for a person I haven't worked with before - and because of that work I've had to cancel my next appointment. I think there may be more on my palte to talk about come the end of October when, I am afraid, my next appointment with him will be.

Thanks again Tamar.

ShortE


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