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Re: Intense session crushedout

Posted by luvdove on September 26, 2005, at 16:10:48

In reply to Intense session, posted by crushedout on September 26, 2005, at 15:10:57

Oh crushed out that was an intense session! But how brave and courageous of you to be so honest! I think one of the most painful things in my own therapy is the realisations that my T cant give me everything I need (or want) when it feels like she could give it to me but just *wont*, like shes withholding or something. What was your relationship with your mother like? I wonder if your T is triggering childhood longings from your childhood? (if Im way off Im sorry, Im a psych student can't help it!). I think the best advice I can give you is to keep being as honest as you can with her, even when its really embarrassing. Ive learnt that being honest about my feelings for my T is the only way through them apparently by going through well eventually get to the other side.

Im also not sure how these needs can be met elsewhere; I have some very affectionate and loving friends but hugging them is not the same as I imagine it would be like for my T to hold me. So I kinda know how you feel, and Im sorry because its sooo painful!

Keep talking about it, words are all we have!

Luv xx


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