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Re: Need some advice, please

Posted by B2chica on September 22, 2005, at 9:39:49

In reply to Re: Need some advice, please happyflower, posted by alexandra_k on September 21, 2005, at 22:08:40

i agree fully with alex.
i think you should go for two reasons 1) because he was your cousin and you cared for him no matter how long ago and i think it's good to go....closure and all.
2)don't let your mother take control her way. (but you MUST put yourself first).

Take someone with you. if she is there, don't even make eye contact, don't say a single word to her, except maybe "i don't want you near me right now please leave me alone" let your friend know who she is and what she looks like, and if she does end up hovering or staying near you, you can always leave. remember you Don't Have to talk with her..mother or no, this is for you not her.
i'm hoping that if she is that manipulative she may want a show but it would be one that makes her look good (like over eggagerating mourning at the funeral) not gun to you. (but i don't know your mother) (which by the way you could probably get a restraining order put on her for you and your kids).

Definately talk about this with your T and see what's best for you.
good luck.
b2c.


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