Posted by daisym on September 15, 2005, at 23:45:53
In reply to Re: Another thought I have about this**Trigger** » Racer, posted by jammerlich on September 15, 2005, at 21:58:02
You have nothing to be humiliated about. Repeat this 100 times, and then 100 more. You were a child being victimized and threatened.
My dad used to say, "don't worry, I won't tell mom you were bad." When I told my therapist this, he swore. This scared me, but slowly, very, very slowly I've come to realize that he wasn't angry at me but rather at my dad. And I'm trying very hard to work out whose fault it was and what my part in it was. The fall out all these years later is hard to live with.
But i understand. And you don't need to feel humiliated, especially with us. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
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