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Re: Admitting someone hurt you versus whining? » Racer

Posted by Poet on September 12, 2005, at 19:13:41

In reply to Admitting someone hurt you versus whining?, posted by Racer on September 11, 2005, at 22:08:02

Hi Racer,

I remember how tough it was for you last year. I also remember thinking that it sure didn't seem like you asked for it in anyway. It still doesn't.

I struggle with accepting that I am not responsible for many bad things that have happened to me, including being abused. My T has tried so patiently to get me to stop blaming myself and allow that I didn't ask for these things to happen to me. She says she'd like to hear me say that I am not to blame for ___________.

Maybe the difference between admitting abuse and being a professional victim is understanding and accepting what you are and aren't truly to be blamed for? I obviously haven't been able to do that, but my T would say it's progress that I don't blame myself for everything single bad thing.

Progressing at my usual snail pace- Poet

 

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