Posted by alexandra_k on September 7, 2005, at 4:29:13
In reply to I put this in writing ***trigger***, posted by fairywings on September 4, 2005, at 22:07:24
> Just an aside: my oldest daughter is a freshman in hs and recently attended her first hs football game
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(((((fw)))))
i'm so sorry...
that makes a lot more sense of what we were talking about over on parents. i'm sorry... i wouldn't have said what i did if i had known that. really. this must be a pretty hard time for you.i wouldn't worry about talking about your old t. really. i'd maybe suggest being a little careful if you hated his guts or thought he was thoroughly incompetent or something like that. but it is okay to talk about your perception. and the fact is that you took a huge risk and opened up about something that was really important and really hard for you to talk about and his reaction hurt you. and so it would be good to process that. and you need some kind of reassurance that that isn't going to happen again.
you really are very brave to be doing this
:-)and it is going to help your relationship with your daughter.
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