Posted by JenStar on September 6, 2005, at 14:50:10
In reply to i don't want to go to therapy today- plse help, posted by kerria on September 6, 2005, at 12:26:44
hi Kerria,
I think the things you write about are not specific to DID. I know MANY people search for keys at the last minute, make excuses not to go -- because it's difficult to do things like therapy. I also think it's possible to overcome it, even if you do have DID. The "you" that writes here, the "you" that wants to get better clearly has goals and ambitions that are important and valid. I have a feeling that the "you" showing on Babble is completely capable of going! :)I know it's tough. Everyone here writes about difficult spots, difficult times with T, difficutly handling the inability of the T to do comforting. I'm sorry you're not getting what you want from your T. But it sounds like you WANT to persevere...preparing for the day when things will start to get better, right?
What if you went to therapy today and talked to your T about ways to improve ONE thing you want to fix? Maybe you can't fix the doctors or the pain meds...maybe you can't fix their response...but is there something you want to work on internally? Maybe starting with part integration is too huge. Maybe something like communication with hubby or kids? Having fun with the kids? I don't know. But it seems that part of you still WANTS to get something from therapy. I hope you can get it!
take care, Kerria.
JenStar
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