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Re: dealing with crap rainbowbrite

Posted by daisym on August 29, 2005, at 15:51:47

In reply to Re: dealing with crap fallsfall, posted by rainbowbrite on August 29, 2005, at 15:44:35

Sometimes fighting off the bad feelings is the wrong thing to do. Let yourself cry and be angry and then cry some more. And then pick yourself up and try to get on with life.

Suicide almost always isn't about anyone but the person and their private pain. In those moment, the hell they are in is worse than the hell they imagine leaving you in. It is a personal battle of one-on-one, me-to-me or I-to-I. I know you loved this person, but I agree with Damos, this wasn't about you and they wouldn't have wanted you to continue to suffer.

I hope you find someone to talk to about all this soon. It is one of the darkest kinds of guilt and loss. In the mean time, be gentle with yourself.

hugs
Daisy

 

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