Posted by Dinah on August 24, 2005, at 16:30:34
In reply to Re: If it were next session, posted by alexandra_k on August 24, 2005, at 16:17:58
It might be true that if I opened up a can of worms it would serve to draw me back in. But I don't think that it makes it inevitable now to do the hard work. My therapist will never push me. We'll just sit and chat forever. I'm certainly no more likely to tackle the big issues, and probably less.
I guess it's the feeling that he's indifferent and unengaged that's bothering me. You know, like he should say that he doesn't want me to grow away from him. Either that or that he seems so passive and ineffectual.
But I've always cared more than he does. And he's always been rather passive. That's what I like about him.
Other than completely forgetting the phone calls, I don't know what's up.
poster:Dinah
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