Posted by All Done on August 19, 2005, at 2:29:17
In reply to Re: Silly question :-) » All Done, posted by AuntieMel on August 17, 2005, at 15:23:40
> But you look so good the way you are!!
Thanks, Auntie Mel. You're so kind :).
> I want pictures, too.
Absolutely!
> I wouldn't tell. Ok - I've played around with the color and even screwed it up once and had an orange patch - but I never mention it before or after and he doesn't mention it either.
Oh my gosh, when I was a teenager, I tried to go from dark brown to blonde by myself. Orange, brown, blonde, and gray! It was awful. I had to get my friend/hair stylist to go into work on Sunday when the salon was closed to help. My hair was fried for a couple of years. :(
> And that's a good thing. I've got enough issues about what *I* think I look like without having to think about what *he* thinks I look like.
>
> I can't imagine what would happen to my poor brain if I finally came up with a look I like and he said something negative. Best to leave his perception of looks out of the equation I think.Well, if I don't say anything and then he doesn't say anything, I'll obsess about what he's "really" thinking.
Sigh. I don't think either way feels right to me. I guess I'll decide closer to the day.
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